How to Win the ‘Athlete Adulting’ Game

Athlete Adulting

Ever have one of those weeks packed with key deadlines, a surprise business trip, family obligations, and a contractor showing up to start a home project? Now toss in figure skating training, competition season on the horizon, fitness goals, and suddenly you’re juggling a schedule full of “athlete adulting” responsibilities. Sound familiar? Don’t worry—you really can do it all, even if it looks a little different than you imagined.

While I’m not a professional organizer, planning large-scale corporate events set me up with some effective strategies for prioritizing and staying flexible. Here are a few tricks I’ve found helpful—hopefully, they’ll work for you, too!

Prioritize and Plan for What Matters Most

    • Identify Core Priorities: Each year, I set big goals and revisit them quarterly to adjust and realign. This means marking key dates like competitions, work events, and vacations on my calendar as non-negotiables. From there, I create a plan with milestones like booking travel or scheduling smaller competitions before nationals. Checking in quarterly ensures I can adapt as needed.
    • Time Blocking & Planning: Weekly check-ins are essential to staying on track. I schedule everything—skating sessions, gym workouts, and work meetings—so I have a realistic view of my week in one place. I also try and block off specific hours for focused work which helps boost my productivity so I can get everything done.
    • Stay Flexible: Even the best plans change, and adaptability is key. A planned 6 p.m. workout might get bumped by an emergency work meeting. Instead of giving up, I’ll opt for a 30-minute treadmill incline walk—giving me cardio, core work, and a mental reset.
Fitness Goals

Optimize, Don’t Just Balance

    • Set Strategic Boundaries: Setting boundaries isn’t easy, but it’s necessary. For example, I know my workday rarely ends on time, so I skate early in the morning when interruptions are minimal. Gym sessions, however, are more flexible and can shift when work demands more attention.
    • Integrate Skating and Fitness: I always warm up for 10–15 minutes before hitting the ice—jogging, doing off-ice jumps, and stretching. Even on chaotic days, it’s good to know I’ve at least fit in some fitness.
    • Use Micro-Breaks for Quick Recovery: A perfect post-workout routine isn’t always realistic (more on recovery here). I’ll often sneak in two minutes of stretching after skating or between Zoom calls. These small breaks add up and help alleviate stress and fatigue.

Manage Stress with Simple Techniques

    • Mindfulness and Mini-Resets: Carving out a few minutes each day to recharge is a game-changer. This could mean listening to a podcast, foam rolling sore muscles, or a mini stretch session before bed. Find what works for you, no matter how small.
    • Embrace the Power of “No”: Saying no can be tough, but it’s crucial for balance. Especially true this time of year – prioritize volunteer activities or commitments that genuinely fit your schedule. And remember: your holidays don’t have to be Instagram-worthy—they just need to work for you. 
    • Leverage Technology: Use digital tools to manage time and limit distractions. Setting social media limits or activating “Do Not Disturb” hours can surprisingly free up extra time in your day.  (More on managing social media here)

Celebrate Small Wins and Stay Motivated

    • Acknowledge Progress: Reflect on small wins across career, life, skating, and fitness. Progress may feel slow, but it adds up over time.
    • Remember Your ‘Why’: Staying connected to your purpose—whether it’s skating, fitness, or work—keeps you grounded and motivated, even during tough days.
    • Consistency Over Perfection: Rather than aiming for long or “perfect” sessions, focus on regular activity. Consistency builds resilience and leads to meaningful results over time.

Balancing it all isn’t easy, but with thoughtful planning, flexibility, and mindful strategies, you can create a routine that allows you to pursue your passions while keeping up with life’s responsibilities.  What are some things that has worked for you?

How Sarah Found Connection, Passion, and Tribute on Ice

Theatre on Ice

For Sarah Warden, discovering Theatre on Ice (TOI) as an adult was the beginning of an adventure that combined her love for skating, her talent for theatrics, and a lasting connection to her late mother. Now entering her eleventh season with The Skating Club of Bostons Imagica of Boston adult TOI team, Sarah has found a way to embrace creativity, competition, and community on the ice, all while paying tribute to her moms memory.

Discovering Theater on Ice as an Adult: Sarah’s Start in Skating

Sarahs journey started with a Learn to Skate program at the Skating Club of Boston. Initially, it was just a way to brush up on skating skills she hadnt used since childhood. But a coach quickly recognized her flair for performance and suggested she try out for Theatre on Ice. Though her first attempt to join came too late in the season, Sarah signed up the following year, and she hasnt looked back since.

Combining Choreography and Storytelling on the Ice

In Theatre on Ice, teams train and compete in two key programs: a short, “choreographic exercise” which has three components that must portrayed in the program and a longer free skate” that focuses on storytelling and creating a universe” on the ice. The season runs from late summer through June, with tryouts beginning in July or August. For Sarah, the joy of stepping into a character with a costume and telling a story through movement has been transformative. Its like you get to become someone else while still being yourself,” she says. Each season brings new creative challenges and opportunities to connect deeply with her teammates.

Building a Team Beyond the Ice: Sarah’s Role in the TOI Family

Beyond performing, Sarah has become a core member of the TOI team off the ice as well. She helps organize team dinners, ensuring everyones dietary needs are met and that gatherings are warm and welcoming—a role she took on as part of her commitment to fostering the tight-knit TOI family” vibe that makes the adult team so special.

theatre on ice

Honoring Her Mother’s Memory Through Skating

One of the most meaningful aspects of Sarahs skating journey is how it connects her to her late mother. Her mother was a big influence on her childhood skating, often waking up early to drive her to practice and cheer from the stands. Sarah rediscovered skating at an event held at Bostons Frog Pond, where, even in rental skates, she felt the rush of gliding across the ice again. When she called to tell her mother about the experience, her mom encouraged her to pursue her passion wholeheartedly. Although Sarahs mother never got to see her skate with TOI, each performance is a way for Sarah to honor her memory and keep that connection alive. TOI has also brought Sarah closer to her sister, who enjoys watching practices and especially traveling to competitions to cheer the whole team on.

Advice for Aspiring Adult Skaters: Embrace the Journey

Sarahs advice to others considering joining Theatre on Ice? Just go for it—but be prepared for the commitment,” she laughs. Balancing practices with family and work is no small feat, but she assures its worth it. Practices are videotaped so that team members can learn choreography even if they miss a session, and theres always someone willing to help them catch up.

Whether shes skating in memory of her mom or simply enjoying the energy and creativity that comes with each TOI season, Sarah sees her team as a unique part of her life—a family united not just by skating but by the joy of performing, the commitment to one another, and the many special memories theyve created together on the ice. For Sarah, each season with Theater on Ice is a beautiful way to honor her mothers legacy and embrace her own passion for the sport.

Creating Powerful “Just Do It” Moments in Your Training

Just do it

Sometimes, training becomes routine—going through the same movements in the same order each session on the ice. While having a plan is important, there’s great value in shaking things up, especially by pushing yourself out of your comfort zone. As adult skaters, we often play it safe—and for good reason! I didn’t skate as a child, but I’m pretty sure I don’t bounce back from falls the way kids do. Nike got it right: creating “just do it” moments in your training can help you reach the next level.

Recently, I took a lesson with a different coach. Not only did she push me, but she also provided valuable exercises and a huge confidence boost, which made me reflect on the benefits of changing up your training.

Before the lesson even started, I had my doubts. I’m someone who sticks to a strict training schedule because it brings me comfort. But with a packed work schedule, I hadn’t skated the day before, and my lesson was on the first session of the morning, so no sneaking in extra warm-up time. The lesson began with twizzles and some new edge exercises, one of which proved particularly challenging. It involved three turns in an alternating pattern, but the twist was to make them quick and sharp without using my arms—they were to stay folded in front of me.

Initiating the three turns wasn’t too difficult, but the speed and lack of arms for balance and ‘checking’ threw me off. I struggled to control the “back side” of the turns and quickly get to the next one. My instinct was to slow down the exercise to regain control, but my coach immediately instructed me to keep the original pace. When I asked for advice on controlling the second part of the turn, hoping for a magic solution, she simply said, “Keep going and fight it out.”

While that may sound like non-instruction, it was actually brilliant. The more I resisted the urge to slow down or put a foot down, the more I learned to use my shoulders and transfer my weight properly. I’m far from mastering the exercise, but it’s improving. The best part? It’s translating to other skills like spins and jump entrances. The lesson reminded me that sometimes, you just need to do it rather than overthink and keep things comfortable.

My next “just do it” moment came at the end of the lesson. After marking the jumps and spins in my program, my coach wanted to see a full run-through. The problem? I hadn’t warmed up any jumps. The instruction to “just do singles” didn’t ease my nerves, since singles are all I have on a good day! But, I went for it—and not only was it a huge confidence boost, but during the run-through, I found myself thinking less about “not messing up” and more about visualizing how to set up each element, focusing on details like arm placement, keeping my picking foot low, and using my shoulders effectively. A good friend of mine talks a lot about the benefits of this mindset in everyday practice—more on that here.

This experience showed me that sometimes, action is far better than overthinking. Pushing past your comfort zone and just doing it can lead to surprising breakthroughs.

Have you ever had a “just do it” moment in your training or another area of your life? I’d love to hear your stories, whether it’s overcoming a challenging exercise, trying something new, or surprising yourself with what you can achieve. Drop a comment below!

Say hello to the butterflies – it’s nearly competition season

Competition Season

As competition season approaches, I’ve been reflecting on how much I’ve learned over the last two years as an adult figure skater. It took me a couple of seasons to truly understand how to prepare in a way that leaves me feeling confident, composed, and ready to give my best performance. Here’s what I’ve discovered about strategizing for competition:

Training for the Unexpected

Competitions rarely go exactly as planned. Whether it’s a delay in the schedule, unexpected ice conditions, or a shortened warm-up—learning to adapt is essential. When I first started competing, I was amazed by skaters who could step onto the ice and be fully ready for their program in six minutes or less. I assumed some people were just naturally good at it, while others weren’t. While that might be partly true, I now understand that a lot of practice goes into creating a warm-up routine that works for you. Training for the unexpected, like skating on unfamiliar ice or at different times of day, builds flexibility and resilience. I’m also much more deliberate in how I do my program run-throughs (more on that here). For example, I almost always complete the full program with all elements, no matter how rough it’s going, to practice recovering after a mistake.

Practicing the Warm-Up and Practice Sessions

One of the most important lessons I’ve learned is the value of practicing both my competition warm-up and on-ice practice sessions. Knowing how to maximize the six-minute warm-up or 20-minute practice session is crucial. These are very compressed sessions, with many skaters all trying to do the same thing at the same time—stressful, to say the least! I also keep a mental checklist of the must-do elements for warm-up, with extras to cover if there’s time. This is especially important at my level, where those six minutes aren’t guaranteed! As competitions approach, I try to dedicate a bit of time each week to simulating the short, 20-minute practice time that’s often available. I set clear goals: warming up all spins, jumps, and footwork, plus completing two run-throughs within that 20-minute window. 

Getting on Different Ice at Different Times

Changing up my routine by skating at different rinks and at different times of day helps me prepare for the unpredictability of competitions. It allows me to get comfortable with various ice surfaces, temperatures, lighting, and even how the rink is oriented—things beyond my control but that can impact performance. I’ve even heard of elite skaters who practice their six-minute warm-up, get off the ice for 30-40 minutes, and then return to run their long program. This simulates what top-level skaters experience when they perform last in their group. If someone like Yuzuru Hanyu practiced this, I certainly shouldn’t skip it!

Competition Season

Creating a Season Plan

One of the biggest changes I’ve made is developing a season-long plan. Rather than treating each competition as an isolated event, I now view the season as a progression. I start by mapping out major competitions like Sectionals and Nationals, then work backward, adding local competitions and rest periods. I also take into account busy periods at work when scheduling competitions. My goals for each competition aren’t based on scores or medals (which I can’t control), but on personal milestones—like adding a new jump, hitting a level on a combination spin, or simply staying focused during a new program. This season plan helps me stay focused on long-term goals, while recognizing short-term wins and staying flexible.

Upping the Off-Ice Game

Off-ice training has become a key part of my strategy. It’s not just about skating anymore; it’s about building strength, flexibility, and mental toughness off the ice. Incorporating strength training, stretching, and mindfulness practices has improved my performance and helped reduce injuries or lessen their severity.

These strategies have been game-changers, not just for my technical skills, but for my mental approach to competing. Heading into this season, I feel more prepared, yet ready to make adjustments as needed.

If you have any tips for preparing for competitions please share them in the comments.

Good luck, and enjoy the journey!

How to Create the Powerful Impact of Ice Shows

The Impact of Ice Shows

Are ice shows just something to do once the competition season is over? What is the impact on audiences of non-skaters? And what really goes into producing one of these events? I recently had the opportunity to sit down with Brad Vigorito—coach, choreographer, show producer, and former competitive skater—to discuss the unique influence of ice shows on both audiences and skaters alike.

The Art and Sport of Ice Shows

One of the first topics we explored was the duality of ice shows as both art and sport. According to Brad, ice shows have the power to expose the beauty of skating to new audiences. It exposes our sport in a way that highlights not just the athleticism but the artistry,” Brad shared. You see skaters performing their hearts out, not just for judges but for the joy of entertaining a crowd. It’s very different from competition.”

Unlike competitions, where the focus is on technical elements and scores, ice shows give skaters the freedom to express themselves artistically. Audiences are treated to a range of emotions—from comedic acts to powerful, emotional performances. And as Brad emphasized, “Judges are audience members too, but audiences pay to be entertained. They want to feel something.”

Finding Growth Through Shows

For skaters, ice shows provide a unique opportunity for growth. Brad explained that shows allow athletes to explore new styles, step out of their comfort zones, and experiment without the pressures of competition. When I was competing, we had our season from May to January. After that, I always had shows lined up, and I used them as a way to test new music or choreography,” he said. Some of my best programs started out as show performances.”

Brad encouraged skaters to take full advantage of these opportunities. “Dont just see shows as a way to make money or fill time. Push yourself to try something different. You never know where it will lead.”

Social Media and Show Selection

As the conversation shifted toward how skaters are chosen for shows, Brad highlighted the importance of self-promotion in todays digital age. Social media has become a huge tool for skaters. You need to be your own advocate,” he explained. In his days as a skater, it was mostly up to coaches to promote their higher-level athletes, but now skaters can directly connect with producers and fans through platforms like Instagram and TikTok.

Brad also touched on the criteria used for selecting skaters for some shows, such as the Frog Pond events in Boston, which he co-produces. We use a black-and-white system based on competition results, but as a producer, I also want to see that the skaters take the show seriously. Its my job and reputation on the line.”

The Impact of Ice Shows

The Magic of Performing Live

One of the most compelling parts of the interview was when Brad discussed the energy of performing live, particularly in outdoor settings like the Frog Pond. Theres nothing like it,” he said. I remember skating in outdoor shows, and it was snowing so heavily we could barely see each other. But looking up at the sky, performing under those conditions—its magical.”

However, outdoor performances come with their own set of challenges, from unpredictable weather to the pressure of performing after being off the ice for hours. Brad explained that in shows, skaters often dont have the luxury of traditional warm-ups, and they need to be ready to perform in less-than-ideal conditions. You dont see skaters doing their hardest tricks in shows because theyve been off the ice for hours. Its about staying professional, keeping warm, and delivering an entertaining performance.”

The Challenges of Producing a Show

As a producer, Brad has seen firsthand how much work goes into creating a successful ice show. From structuring the program to dealing with unpredictable factors like weather or budget cuts, producing a show is no easy task. You want to catch the audiences attention at the beginning and end, with strong opening and closing numbers,” Brad explained. But you also have to balance high-energy group performances with solo acts and ensure everyone skating feels valued.”

Brad also emphasized the importance of accessibility in choreography. You want to create something that everyone can participate in, whether theyre a beginner or an advanced skater. Simple moves, when done well, can be incredibly powerful.”

The Future of Ice Shows

As our conversation came to a close, Brad reflected on the future of ice shows and the challenges they face, particularly in the post-pandemic world. Audience engagement has been difficult to regain, and issues like music copyrights have made it harder to livestream or share performances. Were so fortunate to have social media and YouTube, but its still harder every year to get the sport the exposure it deserves,” he said.

For Brad, the beauty of ice shows lies in their ability to make skating accessible and relatable to everyone, not just elite competitors. Shows are the one place where audiences can connect with the skater, feel something, and be amazed. Thats why Im passionate about keeping this tradition alive.”

Ice shows are more than just performances—theyre a platform for skaters to grow, for audiences to fall in love with the sport, and for the magic of skating to be shared with the world. As Brad Vigorito aptly put it, Its a feeling that goes beyond gold medals. Its about creating moments that last a lifetime.”